Saving my favors

I have always been one to save favors. Taking care of objectives myself due to impatience or lack of trust for others due diligence has caused me self induced anxiety attacks. Yes God, I know this translates to control issues! It’s a fine line between getting it done and giving…

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Your Should or Mine?

  Often, when people tell you what you should be doing, they have lost focus on what they could or would be doing for themselves. A should is a projection, a safety zone for people who are loosing control of their own situations. It’s easier to assess other’s problems  then to work on…

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Everyone’s problem is more important than yours

A sudden intestity overcomes us when we think we have lost control of our circumstances. We impose on others to save us, not thinking that they might have a crisis of their own. Bombarding them with questions, forcing them to put their own task at hand on the sidelines. I…

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