Unconditional Love

Is there really a such thing as unconditional love? We love someone because we want them to love us back. That creates a condition. If we can love without any condition of reciprocity than that would evoke unconditional love. Unconditional love is shameless and humble, opening up a vulnerability that…

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Your Should or Mine?

  Often, when people tell you what you should be doing, they have lost focus on what they could or would be doing for themselves. A should is a projection, a safety zone for people who are loosing control of their own situations. It’s easier to assess other’s problems  then to work on…

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Everyone’s problem is more important than yours

A sudden intestity overcomes us when we think we have lost control of our circumstances. We impose on others to save us, not thinking that they might have a crisis of their own. Bombarding them with questions, forcing them to put their own task at hand on the sidelines. I…

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Your Story Doesn’t Define You, it’s what you do with it that counts…

What does your story do for you? Does it enable you? Does it destroy you? Or does it empower you? I used my story for so many years as an excuse to react the way I did. Eventually I realized it didn’t help me grow, my story kept me stagnant. As…

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