There are three levels of desire. A person can want, need or choose to have or accomplish a goal. A want is a passive desire with a bit of indifference to whatever the outcome will bring. A need has a dependence attached that doesn’t necessarily fulfill a person’s truest desire.…
Often, when people tell you what you should be doing, they have lost focus on what they could or would be doing for themselves. A should is a projection, a safety zone for people who are loosing control of their own situations. It’s easier to assess other’s problems then to work on…
Have you ever had a fly land on you, causing you to swat, twitch, fluster and redirect your focus off your immediate task at hand? I have put a theory to my molesting fly experiences. I have often thought that my pesky visitors come to me when I am wasting…
Busyness feeds our mind chatter stunting our spiritual growth. The busier we are, the more we feed our numbness to face our feelings. In the past, I have dealt with stress by drowning myself with work. This has never saved me from pain. The only way I have ever been able…
