An Open Letter to the Usher at the Theatre Who Asked Me if “I Was the Sick Girl”

Dear Miss, First of all, for being an usher tonight. I’ve always had an admiration for what you do, and for the whole world of the Great White Way. Tonight, I was really excited to see one of my favorite musicals being revived on Broadway. I used to live for…

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My Woman of the Year phone call

On Friday afternoon, Congressman Garemendi’s office called me and told me I won the Woman of the Year award for his district. I started crying immediately and Chris started repeating, “Wow mom, Wow”. I managed a thank you within my quivering voice and hung up. My son’s eyes were so big, as…

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How to Figure Out What Your Boundaries Are

Originally published on Everyday Feminism Magazine on September 21, 2016 by Miri Mogilevsky and re-published here with their permission. All of us – no matter how easy-going or “low-maintenance” – have boundaries. We have boundaries around things we won’t do sexually, ways we don’t want to be spoken to, activities…

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TMI. Oversharing. “Did they really just say that?”

TMI. Oversharing. “Did they really just say that?” Sounds like a typical Activist. (Really.) We’ve all heard of an Activist. But what’s a Health Activist? Health Ac•tiv•ist, noun — A blogger, tweeter, or community leader helping others navigate their health. (You can endorse me as a Health Activist here!) I’m…

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