You are Responsible for You: autonomy, automaticity, and change

Originally published on DuffMcDuffee.com By Duff McDuffee No one else “causes” your thoughts, feelings, or behaviors. This is an impoverished model of reality. In this cause-effect model, people do things and you have a response. That’s the whole model. There are no choice points in this model. You are a…

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The Dangerous Myth of the Bad Kid

Originally published on the Huffington Post on January 20, 2016 by Dani Bostick. It’s the second day of kindergarten and Sarah is sitting on the rug, playing with a new classmate’s hair. It’s fantastic hair, wild and curly. The teacher snaps at her, “Stop it!” Sarah is also sitting with…

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“The Raping of My Soul; While Screaming for My Freedom”

Originally written on Jan 1, 2016 By Niki “The Raping of My Soul; While Screaming for My Freedom“ has occurred from the moment I was born. Oh! How my weary soul wishes it could rest in soft sunflower fields upon the clouds fallen onto earth to gently brush my cheek…

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How My Bum Eye Helped Me Look In The Mirror Again

Originally published on BlogHer.com on Dec 30, 2015 By Kelly Wilson “What do you hate about your body?”                                                                                                    My Weight Watchers leader posed this question to our group at the opening of a recent meeting. A supportive group of survivors, we were understandably confused. This meeting was our sanctuary. To…

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